Stubbornly clinging to one perspective will lock you in a one-sided view, limiting your growth and understanding.
It is important to recognize the impact that our perspectives can have on our relationships. When we hold onto one viewpoint stubbornly, we limit our ability to see things from different angles and understand where others are coming from. This can hinder our growth and prevent us from fully connecting and relating with others. When we are closed minded, the connection goes cold.
Being open-minded and willing to consider different perspectives is being open, considerate and fosters trust and connection. Now you might be thinking "that means I agree, and I don't agree". That's a belief that's serving you in some way, and it's outdated and limiting. It's important to become curious what our own beliefs are that closes off communication, and leaves the back and forth dormant.
One of my favorite statements is "You could be right." (because everyone thinks they are right in what they think and believe or they wouldn't talk about it, everyone's feelings are valid, for what they think and believe appears real to them. There's 2% truth in what they said, it's now your job to become an investigator to find out.)
Saying "you could be right" neutrally, it doesn't mean you agree or disagree.
By being open-minded, we can expand our understanding and create stronger connections with those around us. Embracing different perspectives can lead to greater knowledge, emotional intelligence, empathy, compassion, and personal growth. It allows us to see the world from a different point of view and enrich our own experiences.
Ultimately, by letting go of rigid perspectives and embracing openness and presence, we can create more meaningful and fulfilling relationships that bring joy and fulfillment to our lives.
What relationship do you want to uplevel, and create healthier communication?