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Hard Truth: Your Thoughts Are The Problem, Not Your Circumstances

change is possible

Most people blame their job, their partner, their stress, their past. Let’s be real—the biggest enemy is the narrative running in your head.


The problem isn’t: Your boss. Your childhood. Your schedule.


The problem is how you think about these things. Change your thoughts, and you change the way you experience life.


The problem is how you think about these things happening in your life that are neutral, the meaning you're making out of it, and making it personal.


Change your thoughts, and you change the way you experience life.

Our perceptions shape our realities; they color our emotions, influence our decisions, and dictate our responses to challenges. When we embrace a mindset of positivity and possibility, we begin to see opportunities where others see obstacles.


Consider how a simple shift in perspective can transform a setback into a stepping stone for growth. Instead of viewing failures as endpoints, we can see them as valuable lessons that guide us toward success. By reframing negative thoughts and cultivating a habit of gratitude, we can enhance our resilience and overall well-being.


I am not suggesting to force your thought to be positive, that's not possible, it won't work, certainly not sustainable and likely create more negative emotions in the process. This is why you'll not see me promoting affirmations.


Furthermore, surrounding ourselves with supportive and like-minded individuals can reinforce this positive thinking. Being around people that are emotionally intelligent, can regulate their own emotions well and have the skill to seek and understand everyone else's unique feelings and perspectives. 


Ultimately, the journey of changing our thoughts is not a one-time event but an ongoing process. It's a muscle that has to be worked on daily or it will atrophy. 


Training your brain to work for you rather than against you requires practice, patience, and self-compassion. As we learn to redirect our automatic thinking patterns, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and a more fulfilling life experience.


What thoughts are you holding onto, and how might you alter them to create a brighter, more empowered version of your reality? 

If you’re always looking for reasons why life sucks, congratulations—you’ll always find them.

But if you’re ready to rewrite the script, that starts with YOU. You hold the pen to your own story, and every day presents a blank page waiting for your words. Instead of focusing on the obstacles, start identifying the opportunities.


Shift your perspective from “Why is this happening to me?” to “What can I learn from this?”


Begin by questioning the narratives you’ve been telling yourself, most inner chatter is like the music at the grocery store and may not be realized. Are the thoughts and beliefs you have based on facts, or are they merely assumptions? Challenge the negative thoughts that creep in, and replace them with what aligns with the life you want to lead. This isn't about ignoring reality; it's about reframing it to serve you better.


Surround yourself with positivity. Seek out people who uplift you, ideas that inspire you, and environments that energize you. The company you keep can significantly influence your mindset, so choose wisely. Does this mean limiting time around people that share the same genetics, possibly. 


Remember, your thoughts are powerful. They can either be your greatest allies or your worst enemies. By consciously choosing to cultivate a mindset of growth, resilience, and possibility, you can transform your experience of life. So, take a deep breath, let go of the blame, complain and rumination and start rewriting your story today.


The plot twist is you're capable and worthy it just has to be important enough that you start today. 

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