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The Breakthrough Basecamp

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Your Energy Enters the Room Before You Do

Your energy enters the room before you do

You can have the best intentions, say all the “right” things, read every relationship book, run million-dollar companies and still wonder why the hell your love life keeps breaking down the same way. 


Want the truth? 


It’s not the words you’re saying — it’s the energy behind them. You’re thinking one thing, feeling another, and saying something else. 

  • That’s not clarity. 

  • That’s not transparency. 

  • That’s not authenticity. 

  • That’s not being genuine. 

  • That’s chaos. 

  • That’s confusion in human form. 


Your vibe isn’t matching your vocabulary, and no one’s buying the polished pitch when your core is full of contradiction. 


How it lands is: people are suspicious of your intentions. 

The common denominator in your relationship patterns is you. 

Not because you’re flawed — but because you’re not fully aware of what energy you’re actually transmitting.

There’s confusion and conflicting energy. 


Examples:

  • You say you’re open, but deep down you don’t trust. 

  • You say you’re ready, but your body is still bracing for impact. 

  • You say you want intimacy, but you lead with control. 

  • You say you’ve moved on, but your heart is still negotiating with the past.

  • You say you’re calm and collected, but your nervous system is in a full-blown state of defense.


You say you want honesty, but you punish people when they tell you the truth.


If you’ve ever been told “there’s something off” or “I just don’t feel a connection,” what they were feeling wasn’t your words — it was your misalignment.


That’s what happens when your energy isn’t congruent. It reads as off, unclear, even disingenuous. Not because you’re fake — but because what you say isn’t matching what you believe. People may not know why they feel it... but they do. Every time.


Energy never lies, and it always finds a way to replicate itself — even when your words try to mask it.


If multiple people in your life have said the same thing about you — and you keep writing it off as “they just couldn’t handle me” — that’s not a personality trait.


That’s an energetic pattern. 


And if you’re ready to stop recycling the same lessons in new relationships, it’s time to get brutally honest about what your energy is actually saying before your mouth even opens. If this hits and you're done guessing — reach out. Let’s change it at the root.

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